
Ask who your child’s role models are, and why.

Ask your child, “What is one thing that makes you feel really excited?”

Is your child’s room messy? Set the timer for a 15-minute pick-up blitz before moving on to a fun activity.

After study time, put on a favorite song and get everyone moving!

Encourage your child to write all assignments down in a planner. This helps students see everything in one place.

As a family, create a routine that will make mornings run smoothly.

Help your child do something nice for another person.

Ask your child to tell you about one of this year’s teachers.

Take advantage of time in the car with your child. You can talk privately without interruption.

Play cards, charades, or a board game with your child.

Attendance matters! Set your child up for success by making regular school attendance an expectation for your household.


Discuss a controversial issue with your child. Ask, “What do you think?”

Ask your child a specific question about school, such as “What do you think will be your most challenging class?”

Talk about things your child is looking forward to learning in the
coming year.

Say to your child, “If there’s anything you want to talk about, I’ll listen.”

Find quotations that will motivate your child. Post one on the bathroom mirror.

Enjoy some physical activity with your child today.

Compliment something about your child today.

Remember to recognize your child’s effort and progress—not just results.

Teach your child to trust gut feelings. If your child thinks a situation may get out of hand, it’s best to avoid it.