Some middle and high schoolers are embarrassed by affection in public. But they still like hugs at home!
Talk to your child about the dangers of substance abuse.
Helping students with assignments can be challenging. Ask your child’s teacher for advice.
Talk with your child about your priorities. Make sure he or she knows education is a top one.
Remember that the key to getting your child’s respect is showing your child respect.
Have your child estimate how long an assignment will take. Then see how long it really takes.
Dig out a favorite children’s book and read it with your child. There are
always lessons to be learned.
Cut out 14 small hearts. Write a reason you love your child on one each day. On Valentine’s Day, tape them together to make a chain of hearts.
Adolescents can be very critical. Praise your child when he is kind.
Spend 20 minutes on DEAR time today (Drop Everything And Read).
Encourage your child to write a thank-you note to a teacher or coach
who has been a positive influence.
Try to remember your life as a student. It can help you relate to your child.
As a family, decide on a household rule and the consequences for
breaking it.
Thank your child for doing something.
Ask about your child’s most challenging school subject. Together,
brainstorm strategies to make it easier.
Admit it and apologize to your child when you’re wrong. This is a skill your child can learn that will serve them well in the future.
Ask your child to tell you about this week’s assignments.
Have your child teach you something he or she is learning, such as a science
skill.
“Because I said so!” is frustrating to hear. Explain your reasoning when possible.
Help your child consider possible consequences before making a
decision.